Melody of my Life..

-LOVE-
i'm juz abit too bored tryin to get to slp but couldn't.. so juz tinkin of things and feel like writing it down.. the topic is about love.. and here it goes..

when you learn to let goand never to hold onto it so tightly, you'll realise how stupid you were.. you'll be surprised that life outside the "cage" is actually much more beautiful! why lock yourself up when you got the choice to be free and to be happy? love should be happy and sweet.. it should never be sad and bitter! if you feel sad, it's not love.. cos even if u cant be with the person, you see hm/her happy you'll be happy too.. that then is true love.. and remember this.. when a door of happiness closes, annother opens.. but often we look so long at the closed doors that we didnt see the ones that had been open for us.. Love comes to those who stil hope thou they've been disappointed.. to those who stil believes thou they've been betrayed.. need to love those who stil love thou they've been hurt.. as maybe god wants us to meet afew wrong ones before we meet the right one.. so that we wil noe how to be grateful for that precious gift.. so dun lose hope in love and most importantly, dun dwell in painful, wrong relationships.. cos it'll onli bring u more pain n tears.. if u love someone, tell them! remember always to say wat u reali mean.. never be afraid to express yourself.. take this opportunity to tell someone wat they means to u.. seize the day and have no regrets.. it hurts to love someone and not be loved in return.. but wat is more painful, is to love someone and never to find the courage to tell them.. there are times when we're timid and shy about expressing the love we feel.. for fear of embarrassing the other person or even ourselves.. we hesitate to say the actual words "i love u" so we try to communicate the idea in other words.. we say "take care", "dun drive too fast", "be good".. but reali.. these are juz other ways of sayin "i love u", "u r important to me", "i dun wan u to get hurt".. we're sometimes very strange ppl.. the onli thing we wan to say and the one thing we shud say, is the one thing we dun say.. and yet bcos the feelin is so real, and the need to say it is so strong, we're driven to use other words and signs to say wat we reali mean.. and many times, the meaning nv get communicated at all.. and the other person is left unloved or unwanted.. therefore we have to listen for love in the words that ppl are sayin to us.. sometimes the explicit words are neccessary, but more often, the manner of sayin things is even more important.. a joyous insult carries more affection n love within the sentiments which are expressed sincerely.. an impulsive hug says "i love u".. even thou the words said might be very different.. any expression of a person's concern for another says "i love u".. sometimes the expression is clumsy, sometimes even cruel.. sometimes we must look and listen very intently for the love that contains.. but it is often there, beneath the surface.. we say "i love u" in many ways-with bday gifts, lil notes, with a smile and sometimes with tears.. sometimes we show our love by keepin quiet and nt say a word.. at other times by speakin out.. we show our love sometimes by inpulsiveness.. many times we have to show our love by forgiving someone who has not listened to the love which we had tried to express..