have been having quite lotsa thots in my head for the past few days.. joshua mentioned something that reali struck me so hard.. it has nothing to do with my r/s or watsoever.. it's just his views on r/s.. he mentioned that in a r/s, it tends to be the guy giving their all in the beginning of the r/s.. and in the later part of the r/s when everything kinda stabled down, the girls will be the ones giving their all while the guy keeps receiving.. he said that these kinda r/s wil never work.. a good r/s that'll work is where both parties give and take the equal amount.. isnt it just so true?? i have this fren that was with her ex bf for more thn 7 yrs.. engaged and bought a house.. but all along she's the one that's giving her all while her bf's the type that receives.. the ending is the same.. a break up.. or shud i say divorce? ha~ r/s seems so hard to maintain and so complicated to understand.. but for me personally i tink that love is very simple.. it's when 2 hearts tinks for one another.. trying to compromise to one another.. of cos being fair and reasonable is a must.. but when you truly love someone, you'll just automaticaly compromise to them wont you? at least i will.. i've always believed that there's one person out there, that possesses the power to tame the lil devil in me one day.. i guess i found him.. and he walked away.. but it's ok.. as long as i know i've finally found one of the 3 main guy in my life.. ppl say in one's life you'll meet 3 person in your life..
1. Someone that loves you the MOST
2. Someone that you love the MOST
3. the one you spent your entire life with
and 3 of them might be different person.. if you happen to have 2 of them the same person, you're already considered very blessed.. til now.. i'm quite very sure i've found number 2.. the one i love the most.. i can never be so sure.. the one that loves me most? i'm stil watching.. haha~ maybe til now it's him.. and i'm thankful that i'm considered very blessed :) well.. just some random nonsense about love again from my ikologic hehe~ i'm just bored and needed a space to typed out all these ikologic hopefully i can lease a book one day =x ok lame~ gd nite~
single sided love wil never last..
even if it last, it'll just be responsibilities..
so what's the point?